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Thursday, February 2, 2017

Thesaurus ~ Wednesday Word (a day late)

Sitting around the table with an ever-changing group of friends at lunchtime, we got to talking about words.  Melvin said he wants to revise his book of poems, changing some of the wording.  I had gone straight into the Circle @ Crown Café when I got off the van from our trip to the book sale at the Jewish Community Center, so I had my huge bag of books on the floor beside me and whipped out my newly-acquired Merriam-Webster Thesaurus.  I offered it to Melvin, but he says he already has two of them.  But he did make "thesaurus" his word of the day.
thesaurus = a dictionary of synonyms and antonyms, such as the online Thesaurus.com
A thesaurus helps us pinpoint the precise meaning we want to convey.  It also usually gives sample sentences to show how words are used in context.  Don't you love the thesaurus rex illustrating happiness?

Saturday, December 4, 2021

Hygge Holiday Challenge

Meik Wiking, author of The Little Book of Hygge, which I read in 2017, says hygge has been called all these things, among others:
  • the art of creating intimacy
  • coziness of the soul
  • the absence of annoyance
  • taking pleasure from the presence of soothing things
  • cozy togetherness
  • cocoa by candlelight
Let's take the Hygge challenge, shall we?  Here's what's on the list in the illustration above, plus a few others I've found:
  1. Take a break.
  2. Be here now.
  3. Turn off your phone.
  4. Turn down the lights.
  5. Bring out the candles.
  6. Build relationships.
  7. Spend time with your tribe.
  8. Give yourself a break from the demands of healthy living.
  9. Cake is most definitely Hygge.
  10. Live life today, like there is no coffee tomorrow.
  11. Get comfy.
  12. Start a gratitude list.
  13. Add relaxing scents.
  14. Sleep in for 15 minutes or more.
  15. Learn a new skill. 
  16. Turn off the phone before bed.
  17. Send a thank-you note.
  18. Have a candlelight dinner.
  19. Go for a 30-minute walk without your phone.
  20. Cozy up with a new book.
  21. Have a tech-free evening.
  22. Invest in a cozy sweater.
  23. Go on a coffee date in real life.
  24. Add some greenery.
  25. Cook a new recipe with family.
  26. Have a game night.
  27. Treat yourself to an at-home spa day. 
  28. Make a new friend.
  29. Let in natural light.
  30. Enjoy some hot cocoa or tea.
  31. Bake your favorite holiday treat.
  32. Get cozy and watch your favorite movie.
  33. Have a dance party.
  34. Pray, meditate, or just breathe.
  35. Give yourself a break.
  36. "Unbook" yourself.
I put "unbook yourself" last so I could show it with this shirt that says, "I can't.  I'm booked."  I inherited Donna's shirt when she died.  I was wearing it this week in our Circle@Crown Café downstairs when Melvin looked puzzled and said, "I don't get it."  In my case, "I'm booked" means that "I'm reading another book; so whatever it is that you want me to do, I can't do it because I am busy reading."  Suddenly, Melvin got the joke and laughed.  He is also a big reader and usually has a book with him in the Café, just in case there's nobody around to chat with.  Be sure to notice that #20 on the list above says:  "Cozy up with a new book."  Heck, it doesn't even have to be new.  It's also fun to re-read old favorites.

Anyway, adapting these lists is the key to making this work for us, so pick and choose what works for you and whatever seems comfy and cozy and makes you smile.  It's okay to repeat any of these that make YOU feel good.  I'll end by quoting the author of that book I read:

"Cuddling pets has the same effect as cuddling another person ― we feel loved, warm, and safe, which are three key words in the concept of hygge."
― from The Little Book of Hygge by Meik Wiking (page 41)

Sunday, February 8, 2015

Sunday Salon ~ fake homework

BORROWED

Poems from My Heart and Soul ~ by Melvin Avery Edwards, 2010, poetry
These poems — written between 1980 and 2009 — show the poet's anger, disappointment, happiness, and love of life.  Some of them also explore his belief system and what it means to him.  Melvin, who is currently head of the resident council, lives here at the Crown Center where I moved last summer.  I see him nearly every day.
LIBRARY BOOKS

No Job for a Lady ~ by Carol McCleary, 2014, fiction (Mexico)
History, mystery, and murder are the traveling companions of Nellie Bly, the world's first female investigative reporter.  Nellie defies the wrath of her editor and vengeful ancient gods while setting out to prove a woman has what it takes to be a foreign correspondent in dangerous Victorian times.  Pyramids, dark magic, and dead bodies are what the intrepid Nellie encounters when she takes off for Mexico after her editor refuses to let her work as a foreign correspondent because "it's no job for a lady."  It's 1886 and Mexico has not cast off all its bloodthirsty Aztec past.  Nellie is stalked by ruthless killers seeking Montezuma's legendary treasure and an ancient cult that resorts to the murderous Way of the Aztec to protect it.  And there's the mysterious Roger Watkins, who romantically and physically challenges Nellie's determination to be an independent woman in a man's world.
That Part Was True ~ by Deborah McKinlay, 2014, fiction (Britain)
When Eve Petworth writes to Jackson Cooper to praise a scene in one of his books, they discover a mutual love of cookery and food.  Their friendship blossoms as each of them offers, from behind the veils of semi-anonymity and distance, wise and increasingly affectionate counsel to the other.  They both begin to confront their problems and plan a celebratory meeting in Paris: a meeting that Eve fears can never happen.
House of Daughters ~ by Sarah-Kate Lynch, 2006, fiction (France)
Lonely Clementine is the rightful heir to the House of Peine, the vineyard that has been in the family for generations.  She has spent her whole life caring for the vines, not to mention her sour brute of a father.  But now the Peine patriarch is dead, and to Clementine’s distress his will stipulates that she must share the vineyard with a half-sister she hasn’t seen in twenty years and another she didn’t even know existed.  Secrets tumble out as the three sisters struggle to rescue the family heritage while overcoming their own differences.  (Originally published in New Zealand as The House of Peine by Random House New Zealand.)
FAKE HOMEWORK

My 5-year-old great-granddaughter shows off what she calls her "fake homework."  She's in kindergarten and may consider homework something big people do.  You know, like first graders.

Bloggers gather in the Sunday Salon — at separate computers in different time zones — to talk about our lives and our reading.

Tuesday, February 7, 2017

Randi Schenberg ~ 2017 Award



Besides Randi and Nikki at the beginning, Edie and Gert and Marilyn are knitting with Randi at the end of the video.  I also saw Sandy and Galina with Randi in the Cafe, and Melvin and Mark were at another table with Alyssa.  Katie is the coworker in the office with Randi, and one scene shows Alyssa talking with Randi in the library.  I'll probably pick out other people as I watch this video a few more times.

If this YouTube video quits working, view it here instead.

Tuesday, November 27, 2018

TWOsday ~ in the Circle@Crown Café

Yesterday, Tonya posted this week's specials for the Circle@Crown Café:
Monday:  Veggie Burger on Pretzel Roll
Tuesday:  Pasta Fagioli with Cheese Garlic Bread
Wednesday:  Baked Salmon Wrap
Thursday:  Artichoke Quiche
Friday:  Battered Fish and Mac and Cheese
After checking my calendar and deciding what appealed to my taste buds, I posted a comment, saying, "Looks like Tuesday and Thursday for me."  Then I invited friends to join me, some on Facebook, some around the dinner table last night.  I have friends lined up to eat with me today and Thursday.  In the meantime, here's a painting by Susan Dorothea White of a bunch of other women enjoying a meal together.

Image Source:  http://www.susandwhite.com.au/
UPDATE after lunch:
Donna, Sandy M., and Melvin were already in the Café when I arrived with Marie, having talked her into joining us for a few minutes.  Ezra sat and talked while waiting for his order to go, and Katie spoke to us while getting her drink.  Barbara arrived after most had finished eating, but we had a great chat anyway.

Thursday, August 1, 2024

Café Conversations ~ ideas for discussion topics


I sat at a long table in our Café with a sign that said, "Café Conversations."  I had several pads of paper on the table, inviting ideas, though nobody used those.  What I did get, though, was people stopping to ask what this was all about.
  • Sue couldn't stay to talk very long.
  • Rosy did, though.
  • Walter's friend was curious and came over to ask.
  • Harry was on his way somewhere, but
  • Melvin stayed and talked.
  • Iva also sat down with us.
That was last week.  As I've talked to people and thought about it myself, I've come up with a few topics to consider for discussion:
  1. When you walk, is it important to know how many steps are in a mile?  I've had time to look it up:  Based on an average step length of 2.5 feet, there are approximately 2,000 steps in one mile.  But does it matter?
  2. Coincidences you have noticed in your life.
  3. A humorous event you remember.
  4. Health (yes, I know this is vague and could get into more than anyone wants to know).
  5. Your favorite food (someone told me about watermelon and feta cheese as a salad, and I think that sounds good.
  6. A chapter of a book of sayings, like maybe the Tao te Ching.  I like chapter 11.  Our Crown Center library has the James Legge translation.
Here's the translation of Chapter 11 from this version:

The thirty spokes unite in one wheel, but it is on the empty space for the axle that the use of the wheel depends.

Clay is fashioned into vessels, but it is on their hollow emptiness that their use depends.

The door and windows are cut from the walls to form a room, but it is on the empty space within that its use depends.

Therefore, what has positive existence serves for profitable adaptation, and what has not, for actual usefulness.

You can help by sharing any ideas you may have.  Can you think of something a group might enjoy talking about?

Hmmm, is Meet & Eat a better name than Café Conversations?  I couldn't find a logo online for Café Conversations.  Unless we use this one with comment bubbles over the heads of speakers.  What do you think?  Which name is better?

Tuesday, September 24, 2024

Books two friends are reading

How to Know a Person: The Art of Seeing Others Deeply and Being Deeply Seen ~ by David Brooks, 2023, relationships, 320 pages

Brooks says, "There is one skill that lies at the heart of any healthy person, family, school, community organization, or society:  the ability to see someone else deeply and make them feel seen — to accurately know another person, to let them feel valued, heard, and understood."  He says we humans don’t do this well.  All around us are people who feel invisible, unseen, and misunderstood.  In this book he sets out to help us do better, posing questions that are essential for all of us:

  • If you want to know a person, what kind of attention should you cast on them?
  • What kind of conversations should you have?
  • What parts of a person’s story should you pay attention to?

Driven by a curiosity and determination to grow as a person, Brooks draws from the fields of psychology and neuroscience and from the worlds of philosophy, history, theater, and education to present a hopeful and integrated approach to human connection.  The book helps readers become more understanding and considerate toward others and find the joy that comes from being seen.  Along the way it offers a possible remedy for a society that is riven by fragmentation, hostility, and misperception.  The act of seeing another person is profoundly creative, he says, so how can we look somebody in the eye and see something large in them and also see something larger in ourselves?  This book is for people searching for connection and yearning to be understood.

Represent: The Unfinished Fight for the Vote ~ by Michael Eric Dyson and Marc Favreau, 2024, civil rights, 256 pages
Dyson and Favreau shine a light on the fight for democratic representation, an ongoing and epic quest to build the democracy promised in the Constitution.  Each chapter takes on a new battle between champions of freedom and those who stand in the way of their right to vote — from the American Revolution straight up to the present day as we approach the 2024 presidential election.  This book will help readers understand our past, present, and future.
I notice what people are reading, especially if they seem engrossed in the book.  Then I look it up to see if it seems like something I'd like.  Cindy was reading the first book, and Melvin was reading the second one.

Thursday, November 29, 2018

Thursday lunch at the Circle@Crown Café

It turned out the special for today was actually "Crab" Artichoke Quiche.  Notice the "crab" is in quotes; that's because crab is not kosher, and the Circle@Crown Café is kosher.  Someone around the two tables shoved together for our large group said pollock is used as fake crab.  By the time I ordered, the Café had run out of the special anyway.  They substituted spinach quiche with salad for me, and I was very happy with it.

Who joined us today for food and fun?  Melvin and Gail were meeting with another group, but they sat and talked with us until their group arrived.  Eating together were Donna, Sheila, Nancy, Susan, Sandy M., and me.  Joining us for shorter periods of visiting were Florence and Mary and Ezra.  At one point, we totally embarrassed Nancy by singing Happy Birthday to her!

Sunday, September 1, 2019

Sunday Salon ~ my current book list

Book I just completed

Alternate Side ~ by Anna Quindlen, 2018, fiction (New York), 8/10
"Don't be cynical," Charlie said.
"I'm a New Yorker," said Nora.  "Cynicism is my religion" (p. 209).

"So how are you, really?" Rachel said.  "And that's not a rhetorical question."
"I take a lot of pleasure in having children who know what a rhetorical question is," Nora said, carrying coffee mugs to the dining table as her daughter followed (p. 267).

"People go through life thinking they're making decisions, when they're really just making plans, which is not the same thing at all" (p. 280).
Book I'm reading now

Lots of Candles, Plenty of Cake ~ by Anna Quindlen, 2012, memoir
Quindlen writes about a woman’s life, from childhood memories to manic motherhood to middle age, using the events of her life to illuminate ours.  Considering and celebrating everything from marriage, girlfriends, our mothers, parenting, faith, and loss, to all the stuff in our closets, Quindlen says for us here what we may wish we could have said ourselves.  As she did in her beloved New York Times columns and in A Short Guide to a Happy Life (2000), Quindlen uses her own past, present, and future to explore what matters most to women at different ages.
Book I plan to read next

The President Is Missing ~ by Bill Clinton and James Patterson, 2018, fiction
This novel confronts a threat so huge that it jeopardizes not just Pennsylvania Avenue and Wall Street, but all of America.  Uncertainty and fear grip the nation.  There are whispers of cyberterror and espionage and a traitor in the Cabinet.  Even the President himself becomes a suspect, and then he disappears from public view.  Set over the course of three days, The President Is Missing sheds a stunning light upon the inner workings and vulnerabilities of our nation.  Filled with information that only a former Commander-in-Chief could know, this is the most authentic, terrifying novel to come along in many years.
At 513 pages, this one is a chunkster!  Melvin donated it to our little Crown Center library, after he finished reading it, but our shelves are full.  So I brought it home to read before shelving it.

This photo is from three years ago, when we were purging old books from the shelves to make more room.  Those shelves are now crammed full.  Working that day were Judy, Donna, and Nancy (left to right) and a very young volunteer sitting on the floor.

Thursday, March 29, 2018

My novel

I was wearing this tee-shirt when I got on the elevator the other day, and Tonya read the words out loud:  "Careful, or you'll end up in my novel."
I said, "Be very careful."
Tonya smiled sweetly and said, "I would be honored to be in your novel."
Katie said she wanted to be the villain.  Okay, yes, the bad guys are usually interesting folks.
Later, I told Melvin he couldn't be the villain because Katie had already picked that.  He promptly said, "I want to be the lover."
Not only is my shirt not frightening anyone into being nice, they are even volunteering for parts.
Now I need to come up with a plot.  Any suggestions?

Thursday, September 30, 2021

Thursday thoughts

Light has no shadow.  I've been thinking about odd things today, I guess.  But also, I've been enjoying friendships I've made here at the Crown Center where I live.  I went down to our Circle@Crown Café for breakfast and chatted with Kari, Judy, Melvin, Alyssa, Iva, and Brenda.  I've been reading devotional essays by Joan Uda and thinking about calling Joan to talk about some of what she wrote.  She lives in Montana now (again), near two of her children.  When I met her, she was living in the apartments next door to the Crown Center, which is maybe half a mile from the home of one of her daughters.

Helen of Helen's Book Blog once asked me how I met so many authors.  Well, Helen, it helps to live near one and have the secretary of the church I'd been attending call to ask if I'd give a neighbor a ride to church.  Joan didn't have her car here, having flown in to bring her husband for specialized medical care in St. Louis.  After he died, she moved back to Montana, but we remained friends.  I flew to Montana in 2019 with her daughter and son-in-law, who took me with them to surprise Joan on her 80th birthday.  I've also had fun meeting other book bloggers.  So Helen, if you ever "drop by" St. Louis in your travels, let me know and we can meet at the airport or my place or somewhere.

I'll leave you with a laugh:

Friday, August 2, 2024

Beginning ~ in the cold, cold winter

Beginning
It was winter.
Cold, cold winter.
Old Turtle sat
by the warm wood stove.
Old Turtle's Baseball Stories ~ by Leonard Kessler, 1982, children's picture book, 56 pages

While gathered around the wood stove in winter, Old Turtle tells his friends unbelievable baseball stories of Cleo Octopus, Melvin Moose, Clara Kangaroo, and Randy Squirrel.

Here's how I happened to be reading a book I'd never heard about.  My computer was down, so I called my library to request the Old Turtle books that I wrote about HERE.  The person who answered the phone found this "Old Turtle" book and decided it's what I wanted, even though the author doesn't match the other Old Turtle books.  (Yeah, "Leonard Kessler" doesn't sound at all like "Douglas Wood" to me.)  When Dave, the librarian who usually gets my books ready for delivery, called me a few days later, he added the ones I really wanted.  Ta-da!

Thursday, December 12, 2019

12:12 on 12/12 — continued

Melvin, Bonnie, Dre, Karen, and Donna
Lunch at noon in the Café meant we could take group photos around the table at 12:12 pm on 12/12 to go with the full moon shot I posted twelve hours earlier.  So Karen and I pulled out our cellphone cameras.  Hers was better than mine, so thanks for letting me use it, Karen.