Saturday, February 28, 2026
Remembering a long-ago Saturday
Tuesday, November 18, 2025
Dark skies ~ sun rays later
Thursday, September 4, 2025
The Thinker is thinking thoughts today, and so am I
Wednesday, March 29, 2023
Alone vs. Lonely ~ and words coined by kids
"If you are alone, you are not with any other people."
"If you are lonely, you are unhappy because you don’t have anyone to talk to."
I live alone (except for my cat), and I'm not unhappy about that. I can talk to other people by picking up my phone or going down to eat in our Circle@Crown Café.
Words coined by kidsIt's also likely that I don't feel lonely in my apartment because it's filled with books, and those books are filled with characters who "come alive" as I read.
Somebody wondered what a boy meant when he said "a double kid." Hey, it's a perfect way to describe identical twins. In that case, I have "a double daughter." As you can see (on the right), they visited the Arch in St. Louis. It looks like they were wearing identical sunglasses and had been slurping identical treats.
One child calls an exclamation mark a "yell mark!" A cactus should be known as a "sharpie." A mom said her kids called the baby monitor the "momitor," and that makes sense. Saying hand sanitizer is "hanitizer" is also logical, and calling a ham sandwich a "hamwich" is perfect.
You may put parmesan cheese on your spaghetti, but one child asks for "Farmer John cheese" on hers. Three guesses what "yummy bears" are. Have you ever visited the "Vampire State Building"? If you travel, you could visit "Africa, Asia, and Syrup" (known to most of us as Europe).Thursday, December 15, 2022
Joyful thoughts for Thursday
Monday, September 19, 2022
Looking at four generations
Wednesday, August 3, 2022
Words for a rainy day
Sunday, April 17, 2022
Thursday, April 14, 2022
Information, Please
Then I discovered that somewhere inside the wonderful device lived an amazing person. Her name was "Information Please" and there was nothing she did not know. Information Please could supply anyone's number and the correct time. My personal experience with the genie-in-a-bottle came one day while my mother was visiting a neighbor. Amusing myself at the tool bench in the base-ment, I whacked my finger with a hammer, the pain was terrible, but there seemed no point in crying because there was no one home to give sympathy. I walked around the house sucking my throbbing finger, finally arriving at the stairway.
The telephone! Quickly, I ran for the footstool in the parlor and dragged it to the landing. Climbing up, I unhooked the receiver in the parlor and held it to my ear. "Information, please," I said into the mouthpiece just above my head. A click or two and a small clear voice spoke into my ear.
"Information."
"I hurt my finger..." I wailed into the phone. The tears came readily enough now that I had an audience.
"Isn't your mother home?" came the question.
"Nobody's home but me," I blubbered.
"Are you bleeding?" the voice asked.
"No, "I replied. "I hit my finger with the hammer and it hurts."
"Can you open the icebox?" she asked.
I said I could.
"Then chip off a little bit of ice, and hold it to your finger," said the voice.
After that, I called "Information Please" for everything. I asked her for help with my geography, and she told me where Philadelphia was. She helped me with my math. She told me my pet chipmunk, that I had caught in the park just the day before, would eat fruit and nuts.
Then, there was the time Petey, our pet canary, died. I called, "Information Please," and told her the sad story. She listened, and then said things grown-ups say to soothe a child. But I was not consoled.
I asked her, “Why is it that birds should sing so beautifully and bring joy to all families, only to end up as a heap of feathers on the bottom of a cage?"
She must have sensed my deep concern, for she said quietly, “Wayne, always remember that there are other worlds to sing in."
Somehow I felt better.Another day I was on the telephone, "Information Please.""Information," said in the now familiar voice."How do I spell fix?" I asked.
All this took place in a small town in the Pacific Northwest. When I was nine years old, we moved across the country to Boston. I missed my friend very much. "Information Please" belonged in that old wooden box back home, and I somehow never thought of trying the shiny new phone that sat on the table in the hall. As I grew into my teens, the memories of those childhood conversations never really left me. Often, in moments of doubt and perplexity I would recall the serene sense of security I had then. I appreciated now how patient, understanding, and kind she was to have spent her time on a little boy.
A few years later, on my way west to college, my plane put down in Seattle. I had about a half-hour or so between planes. I spent 15 minutes or so on the phone with my sister, who lived there now. Then without thinking what I was doing, I dialed my hometown operator and said, "Information Please."
Miraculously, I heard the small, clear voice I knew so well. "Information."
I hadn't planned this, but I heard myself saying, "Could you please tell me how to spell fix?"
There was a long pause. Then came the soft -spoken answer, "I guess your finger must have healed by now."
I laughed. "So it's really you," I said. "I wonder if you have any idea how much you meant to me during that time?"
"I wonder," she said, "if you know how much your calls meant to me. I never had any children, and I used to look forward to your calls."
I told her how often I had thought of her over the years, and I asked if I could call her again when I came back to visit my sister.
"Please do," she said. "Just ask for Sally."
Three months later, I was back in Seattle. A different voice answered, saying, "Information." I asked for Sally.
"Are you a friend?" she said."Yes, a very old friend," I answered."I'm sorry to have to tell you this," she said. "Sally had been working part time the last few years because she was sick. She died five weeks ago."Before I could hang up, she said, "Wait a minute. Is your name Wayne?""Yes," I answered."Well, Sally left a message for you. She wrote it down in case you called. Let me read it to you. The note said, “Tell Wayne there are other worlds to sing in. He'll know what I mean."
I thanked her and hung up. I knew what Sally meant. Never underestimate the impression you may make on others. Whose life have you touched today?
Monday, February 28, 2022
Meditating on Monday
Saturday, December 11, 2021
Tradition?
In this seminal book, Berger and Luckmann examine how knowledge forms and how it is preserved and altered within a society. Unlike earlier theorists and philosophers, the authors go beyond intellectual history and focus on commonsense, everyday knowledge — the proverbs, morals, values, and beliefs shared among ordinary people. When first published in 1966, this systematic, theoretical treatise introduced the term "social construction," effectively creating a new thought and transforming Western philosophy.
Saturday, September 25, 2021
Sept. 25 is National Daughters Day
Sunday, September 19, 2021
Friendship, an owl, piano lessons, and kayaking
fake book /fāk bo͝ok/ noun = a book of music containing the basic chord sequences of jazz or other tunes.The first sentence in the Introduction even admits that it's a fake book:
"Throw away your bass clef and give your left hand a break — melodies in the right hand, chords and rhythms in the left hand."
This looks like a beginner's book, and in one sense it is. But the women who bought it so I can teach them how to play the piano will be learning only half of what I expected to teach them. It's something. It's a beginning of sorts, but I feel like I'll have to either come up with a way to teach them how to play with the left hand or get us "real" piano books that teach fingering for the bass clef.
Thursday, April 22, 2021
Earth Day ~ April 22
Wednesday, December 30, 2020
You made me smile ~ thank you
Sunday, December 6, 2020
Day 266 since lockdown = 38 weeks
Gotta brag a little
My daughter shared her painting of a Christmas tree on Facebook today. Click to enlarge it and see details better.
I haven't read much this week, but I did borrow The Book of Two Ways by Jodi Picoult from my friend Donna. I am still reading a Maisie Dobbs book right now, but I'll share more about this latest book by Jodi Picoult in a Book Beginnings on Friday post.
Sunday, May 3, 2020
Happy 60th Birthday to my twins
Sunday, April 26, 2020
There's a cat licking your birthday cake
Here's the birthday girl, wearing my face mask "uniform" as usual when leaving my apartment. Notice the tissue in hand for punching elevator buttons, so as not to waste a disposable glove just to take the elevator down once and back up. Donna had ordered me birthday dinner from Panera — Fuji Apple Salad with chicken and apple chips, and a blueberry muffin for dessert. I met her where deliveries are left on that table next to me because outsiders may no longer roam the halls of the Crown Center. We met the delivery guy there and each took food to our apartments to eat, all socially distanced to stay safe.
I'll show you what I ate, and it was delicious. I shared a few nibbles of the chicken with Clawdia. Maybe it's because they are trying to be extra good to any customers they can get right now, but it seemed to me there were more of all the goodies in the salad today — more sliced up tiny tomatoes, more feta crumbles, more pecans, even more of the chicken. It was very delicious. Clawdia concurs.
Donna sent me a singing birthday card, and I've found it on YouTube for you. If the video here quits working, click on the link to view it there. The words are appropriate, since Clawdia would act just like these cats.
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| Cats on an antique player piano |
"Happy Birthday! Hope you'll boogie on your birthday, Bonnie! Last picture I saw of you, you looked well and happy — hope that is still the case. Enjoy your special day. xxoogg"Yes, I'm doing well and have been doing the boogie all over my little apartment today. My cat didn't lick my cake when I ate a little Hostess cake for lunch. For breakfast, I ate a small can of Vienna sausages and the last three green olives left in the jar. There's a back-story for that.
When I was ten, I went off to summer camp with my cousin Carolyn, who's a year older than I am. Mother sent me a care package that week, and in it were a can of vienna sausages and some green olives. She knew I loved those special treats. So for my breakfast today, I gave myself a treat from my childhood and thought about what my Mom sent me seventy years ago.Marie brought me a gift last night and, wearing our masks, she handed off the bag she'd used to bring it up to me and backed off across the hall. I had a hard time deciding whether to open it last night — who would know, right? — or wait for my actual birthday. I did manage to wait to discover a wooden box full of Tea Drops. On the side are directions: "Pour in boiling water, add Tea Drop, stir and enjoy." Tea Drops, it says, "are pressed teas made with genuine tea leaves that dissolve in hot water." And inside are five kinds of tea:
- Citrus Ginger
- Sweet Peppermint
- Blueberry Acai
- Rose Earl Grey
- Matcha Green Tea
When Clawdia woke from her latest cat nap, we ventured out into the sunshine for the walk she's been wanting for days. Miriam called happy birthday to me from a distance, while she was out sitting in the sun after days of rain. We're both 80 now, since her birthday was in March. As Clawdia sat in the lush grass looking around, I decided the pollen count seems to be down. The mowers and trimmers were working here on this sunny Sunday, even though they usually come here on Mondays. Maybe they've gotten their days as mixed up as the rest of us during this lockdown, or maybe they're worried about "rainy days and Mondays."
That's not all, yet. Later in the day I got a couple of other singing electronic cards, both from Sharon. One was these goats yodeling, and the other was William Shatner singing to me and putting my name in lights as I posted at the top of the page. Okay, Sharon, how'd you do that, getting both of them to sing my name? Thanks for the shout out!
And at the end of the day, more birthday wishes on Facebook from Gina, Toni (who included another birthday cat for today's collection), Annette, Judith, Charlotte, Bonnie M, Jimmy, and Terri. Thanks to all.
Update 4/27/2020: Birthday wishes keep pouring in, like floodgates have opened. Facebook friends continue to send belated good wishes ~ Nancy, Jess, Alyssa, Cindy M, Jean L, Dora, Sharon L, Sylvia, Diana, Laurie, Mary Virginia, Cindy Z, Carol H, Ginger, Rosemary, Vickie, my brother Jim, Pamela, Ginny D, Candy, Sheryn (who added a dog to celebrate with us), and Rosie (who added a cat flying around in a small bi-plane to my cat collection). And I forgot to include the twenty-plus who have clicked "Like" or "Love." Feeling very blessed by all of you.
LOCKDOWN ~ humor
For more fun during our lockdown, here's a short video from a music teacher, who has composed a sweet little song. In her viral video, Liz explains:
"As some of you guys might know, I'm a music teacher, and I've found that one of the best ways that I can process the whole transition to online learning and teaching is to write a song. So, I wrote a song, and I'd like to share that with you guys now. Here we go."What follows quite succinctly sums up the collective feelings of many, many teachers, parents, and students around the country. And I'd say, it applies to the rest of us, too. Shall we sing it with her?














































